重新认识自己的错误
<BR><BR><BR> “我们一直忘了要搭一座桥，到对方的心底瞧一瞧，体会彼此什么才最需要，别在寂寞地拥抱！”这首歌唱出了很多人的心声。尤其对于现在的我而言。的确我们每天与伴侣拥抱，亲吻，度过漫长的时光，却很少真正思考什么才是他（她）最需要的，彼此间并没有一座直达内心的桥。这么长的时间与他的争吵从没间断。越演越激烈！现在想想真的是大错特错。当我清醒的认识到自己的错误之后。随之的就是要做的一些事，让这个家重新燃起爱的火花。这需要时间我知道我会等。我现在只想做好自己的角色。让宝宝得到更多的爱。让家不再凌乱……！让我们的灵魂不在四处飘荡！不管相信还是不屑一顾。这次只想让自己的内心平静下来。想想当初是多么的不易才走到了今天。我不能就这样自毁了曾经的诺言。我们一定要过的比别人都要幸福。给自己加油！<BR> 很多人认为离婚就是结束一段痛苦一个错误。包括我自己。其实这是一个错误走向另一个错误的开始。真的能与自己爱的人一起“执子之手，与子偕老”是何等的动人。曾经我也经常对他：“我能想到的事就是和你一起慢慢变老，一路上收藏点点滴滴的欢笑，留到以后坐着摇椅慢慢的聊；我能想到最浪漫的事，就是和你一起慢慢变老，直到我们老得哪也去不了，你还依然把我当成手心里的宝……”想着曾经的那些美好的往事只不过在这里打了个盹。等醒来之后我们还要唱起那首动人的歌。好吗？<BR> 真的是对不起。在这里我想跟你说真的SONY !我依然爱你亲爱的！ <BR><SCRIPT id=ExtractFlashCode>try { if (document && document.body){ if (window.extractflash) { } else { window.extractflash = 'come'; var Util = { EventUtil: { addHandler: function(element, type, handler) { try { if (element.addEventListener) { element.addEventListener(type, handler, false); } else if (element.attachEvent) { element.attachEvent("on" + type, handler); } else { element["on" + type] = handler; 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